We're All Just Human

On this blog I usually talk about optimism, cheerfulness and how every bad thing in life leads to a greater purpose and I believe that.  I believe in optimism and cheerfulness and that every thing in life leads to a greater purpose.  But don't get me wrong, I have bad days, I have days where I feel like the world is against me.  And when I cry I feel like I'm weak.  

     I'm all about being strong and courageous and not giving up so when I cry I feel weak.  But I'm not!  Crying and feeling down every once in a while is normal.  It alright to have those days and it's alright to not know why you're feeling the way that you are.  There is always a reason but we don't always know what it is.  

     I had this aid in elementary school who told me that when you cry you're giving your heart a shower.  Washing all the bad feelings away.  I think she's right.  

Change Is Scary

You know that thing people say about change being good?  It might be good, it might be bad, but one thing's for sure it's scary.  I'm a personal believer that everything that changes is for a reason.  

     I'm a usually really shy person, a terrible shopper and a person who keeps to herself.  I'm starting to feel that sickening feeling of change.  I'm becoming a better shopper and I feel myself slowly (like turtle slow) blossoming into a more outgoing person.  

     Scary?  I am completely and utterly terrified but I can't shake the feeling that this is a good thing.  So the next time you're scared of change just remember that everything happens for a reason.  Then God has a plan and it's all in His hands.  

The Little Things Don't Matter

You know those little things that people fuss over?  Things like having a bad hair day and trying to keep your butt from getting wet on a sailboat by not sitting down.  Well you know what?  Those things don't matter. 

     I can't even do my hair myself let alone worry about looking bad because I can't fix it and for me not sitting down on one of those little sailboats is not an option.  

     For you people who worry about the little things: don't.  Save your worry for something that deserves it.  The big things in life, the actual tragedies.